What are Death Doulas? We are trained professionals who provide emotional and informational support as one faces death. We are trained to help the dying and their families face the final and inevitable end of life. We work with Hospice and Hospitals to advocate for our client.

Why do I need an end of life doula? Isn’t death a natural part of living? Many people fear death—the act of dying, of leaving their loved ones, of talking about it because it isn’t a comfortable topic. Often the people you need to talk with about death don’t want to talk about it now. They want to wait a while, which often means never. A doula can help by giving you insights to having those conversations. You will die. We’re all going to die, none of us are going to get out of our lives, well, alive. So, let’s live to the fullest until that time, and when that time in the time of our life comes, let us die in love and peace with no regrets. Let’s plan ahead and together to enjoy all the time between now and then.

What is a good death? I think that is a very personal decision—a good death for me may not be a good death for you. Do you wish to be surrounded by family and loved ones? Do you wish to be alone? Do you fear death? Do you look forward to it? Will you stand before your God in joy and happiness, or fear His retribution for unknown sins? Will you be reincarnated? Will you return to that eternal blackness—like the time before your birth?

To answer those questions: I don’t know. I don’t know of anyone who has returned from death and brought irrefutable proof there is life after life. Many have been asked to accept on faith there is a life after life. That faith has brought uncountable numbers of people comfort. It really doesn’t matter a great deal what I think; it matters what you think. My purpose is to help you achieve the death you most desire. To that end, I will answer your questions as honestly as I know how and will support you in any way that I can.

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As a Death Doula/Death Midwife, I am a non-medical support person who will serve the dying individual and family. I will answer questions, help navigate the forms, or put you in touch with someone who will help. I will assist you whether you are in your home, a hospice, hospital, or nursing home.

I am both a Senior and a Veteran and love to support both. Located in the Tri-Cities of Washington State, I will travel 35 miles or so. The ‘or so’ gives us a bit of wiggle room.  I also volunteer with Heartlinks Hospice in their Eleventh Hour program.

I can help you navigate the world of funerals—traditional or green, cremation, aquamation, or composting. We in Washington State have many options, and at least one is perfect for you and your wallet.